About Selfwiser

Mental and emotional health support that works

Selfwiser was born because effective therapy should be simple, accessible and practical. Too many people are missing out on crucial mental health support because traditional therapy just doesn't fit their lives - so we set out to change that.

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Our Mission


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Everyone deserves access to quality mental and emotional well-being support, but traditional therapy isn’t always the right fit for everyone. For some, real change happens within the safety of a confidential therapy room, guided by a strong therapeutic relationship. But we also know that deeper self-awareness and guided action can be just as powerful for others - some prefer to work through life’s challenges with expert support from the sidelines. That’s why we’re creating something different. Through our therapist-led emotional wellness reports, we provide deep insights, personalised recommendations, and practical strategies to help you understand yourself better and take meaningful steps toward change. Whether or not you choose 1:1 therapy, you’ll have access to structured guidance, expert-backed tools, and a clear path forward - at a fraction of the cost, no waiting lists and no rigid schedules.

Healing happens faster when self-awareness is combined with real, evidence-based action. By integrating new practices and expert support, we’re helping people move forward - on their own terms. Our confidential and guided online wellness reports are designed to break down the barriers that keep people from getting the help they need. This is mental well-being reimagined. Whether you’re working through anxiety, navigating relationship challenges, or simply striving for personal growth, our approach ensures you get the clarity, confidence, and tools to create lasting change. This is how we're starting to make expert mental and emotional wellness support accessible to everyone who needs it.

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Our Values


At Selfwiser, our values guide everything we do. We believe in creating a space for growth, healing, and self-discovery, where people feel safe, supported, and empowered to take charge of their emotional well-being.

Connection - True well-being starts with connection—to ourselves and to others. Strengthening our relationship with our mind, body, and emotions allows us to build deeper, more meaningful relationships with those around us.

Knowledge - We believe in the power of psychological education. Using evidence-based insights and practical tools, we help you enhance your mental and emotional health, improve relationships, and increase life satisfaction.

Community - We thrive when we navigate life together. Social connection is essential for well-being, and we’re building a supportive community where people are taking charge of their mental health. Join our community here.

Compassion - We help you replace self-criticism and shame with warmth and kindness. By cultivating self-compassion, we learn to extend the same understanding and care to others.

Openness - Selfwiser is a non-judgemental, inclusive space where you can come as you are. We respect diversity in all its forms, honouring differences in neurodiversity, LGBTQ+ identities, race, culture, and spirituality.

Empowerment - We validate your experiences while igniting hope and motivation. Everyone’s healing journey is different, and we honour each person’s pace while providing the support and tools needed to move forward with confidence.

At Selfwiser, we don’t just talk about well-being—we help you live it.

Our Values


At Selfwiser, our values guide everything we do. We believe in creating a space for growth, healing, and self-discovery, where people feel safe, supported, and empowered to take charge of their mental and emotional well-being.

Connection - True well-being starts with connection - to ourselves and to others. Strengthening our relationship with our mind, body, and emotions allows us to build deeper, more meaningful relationships with those around us.

Knowledge - We believe in the power of psychological education. Using evidence-based insights and practical tools, we help you enhance your mental and emotional health, improve relationships, and increase life satisfaction.

Community - We thrive when we navigate life together. Social connection is essential for well-being, and we’re building a supportive community where people are taking charge of their mental health. Join our community here.

Compassion - We help you replace self-criticism and shame with warmth and kindness. By cultivating self-compassion, we learn to extend the same understanding and care to others.

Openness - Selfwiser is a non-judgemental, inclusive space where you can come as you are. We respect diversity in all its forms, honouring differences in neurodiversity, LGBTQ+ identities, race, culture, and spirituality.

Empowerment - We validate your experiences while igniting hope and motivation. Everyone’s healing journey is different, and we honour each person’s pace while providing the support and tools needed to move forward with confidence.

At Selfwiser, we don’t just talk about well-being - we help you live it.

Bukola Rominiyi - Selfwiser Founder

Meet Our Founder

After working in the corporate world, I saw something that needed to change. Too many talented people were silently struggling with anxiety, stress, and burnout, unsure of where to turn.

Traditional therapy often felt too expensive, too time-consuming, or simply not designed for modern life—leaving many without the support they needed.

That’s why I created Selfwiser with a bigger vision in mind. Yes, we offer therapy, but we’re building something more impactful—a way for people to take control of their mental and emotional health through deep self-insight, tailored psychological education, and evidence-based tools that lead to lasting change.

My corporate and therapeutic background gives me a unique perspective on what really works. I’ve seen firsthand that people heal faster when they truly understand themselves. When individuals gain deep insight into their emotions, behaviours, and thought patterns, they are intuitive enough to create their own solutions—with the right support.

What Makes Selfwiser Different?

We believe therapy shouldn’t feel mysterious, intimidating, or out of reach. It should be accessible, practical, and rooted in knowledge—both self-awareness and psychological education. That’s the change we’re creating: mental health support that makes sense for modern life, giving people the clarity and tools they need to take action.

This isn’t just about individual therapy sessions. It’s about creating a ripple effect of well-being, where every person understands their mental and emotional health and feels armed with the knowledge and strategies to make lasting changes.

That’s how we make quality mental health support truly accessible—helping people move from uncertainty to clarity, confidence, and lasting transformation.

Bukola Rominiyi - Selfwiser Founder

Meet Our Founder

After years in the corporate world, I saw something that needed to change - too many talented people thriving on the outside, but silently loosing the battle with anxiety, broken relationships, burnout, and unsure how to turn things around. Traditional therapy sometimes felt too vulnerable, too expensive, too time-consuming, or simply not designed for modern life - leaving many without the support they needed.

That’s why I created Selfwiser, with a big vision in mind. Yes, we offer flexible therapy, but we’re also building something more impactful - a way for people to take control of their mental and emotional health through deep self-insight, tailored psychological education, and practical solutions that lead to lasting change.

My corporate and therapeutic background give me a unique perspective on what really works. I’ve seen firsthand that people heal faster when they truly understand themselves. With the right support, when people gain deep insight into their emotions, behaviours, and patterns, they're often intuitive and resourceful enough to create their own sustainable solutions.

I believe therapy should be simple, accessible, practical, and rooted in knowledge - both self-awareness and psychological education. That’s the change I'm creating: demystified mental and emotional health support that gives people the clarity and tools they need to take action.

Because when one person heals, grows, and reconnects with themselves, the ripple effects can transform relationships, families, workplaces, and communities.

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